OT XXI [B]: Jos 24:1-2a, 15-17, 18b; Eph 5:21-32; Jn 6:60-69

Wives should be subordinate to their husbands as to the Lord. These are very uncomfortable phrases for us modern Catholics. But notice, Paul begins this section by telling: "Brothers and sisters, be subordinate to one another." He insists so strongly that the husband must love his wife as totally as Christ loves the Church.

God has established an order in the world. God chose the Jews to be first in the world and send his son to this world through them. When Jesus told the disciples to preach the gospel he told them: first go the lost sheep of Israel, then to gentiles. When God chose Abraham he told him, “in you all the nations of the world will be blessed.” Therefore, God is not rejecting anybody when he places someone in the first place. God always follows an order and in placing man the head of the family he was following an order. It could have been the other way about, but God chose that way. Paul or the Bible is not telling women are inferior to men, like what Islam teaches: Here are some of the teachings of Islam about women.

Woman is a property (for enjoyment like animals or farm).

A woman’s life is meant to please her husband (Ibn Majah 3:9:1853). A good wife should bring delight to her husband whenever he looks at her, and obey him whenever he commands her to do something.  

Women are deficient in intelligence and religion, should be submissive to men:

A woman has to please her husband to go to heaven:

Muhammad says to Women to Prostrate before their husbands.

Quran: Those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance – [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. (Q 4:34)

If you are flogging your wife as you do a slave then don’t do sex that day with her, said Muhammad:  (Sahih Bukhari 5204, Bk. 67, H. 138).  (what a concession to a wife).

Reasons a Muslim can hit/ beat his wife (Q.4:34).

 

1. Refusal for sex (Even when the wife’s one parent is dead and she wants to go attend the funeral rites, and at that time the husband asks her for sex, she should satisfy him first before she goes to pay tribute to her dead parent).

2. Not taking bath after sex.

3. Not to show herself beautiful to her husband (only to her husband and not to anyone else).

4. Not praying.

5. Going out without husband's permission. (He can refuse permission even to meet her aging parents.

6. Inviting others without husband’s permission. He can deny permission to invite children from her another marriage.

The husband has the discretion when and for what he can beat his wife. No one can question why a Muslim beat his wife.  (Abu Dawud 11:2142). And Tafsir of Al-Qatbari says to tie the wife down in her bed room and beat.

Muhammad married a child of six and encouraged his followers to marry young children.  

Khomeini called marriage to a prepubescent girl “a divine blessing.  He married 10 year old girl when he was 35.

Marriage is legalizing woman’s private parts (allows man to marry a woman for three nights to have sex)

Women are stupid and lack reasoning and they need lot of forgiveness.

Majority of the dwellers of Hell are women.

Two women’s witness is equal to one man’s (Q.2:282).

Women have no right in deciding the sex positions.

A man can ask for divorce without reason but a woman is not allowed to ask for divorce:

Allah will turn singing girls into monkeys and pigs:

Killing women of immoral behavior.

‘Those of your women who commit illegal sexual intercourse, take the evidence of four witnesses from amongst you against them; and if they testify, confine them (i.e. women) to houses until death comes to them or Allah ordains for them some (other) way”. Quran 4:15  Sahih International

 Muhammad forbade women praying when menstruating. 

Angels curse the wives who refuse to have sex with their husbands:

“When a woman spends the night away from the bed of her husband, the angels curse her until morning”. (Sahih Muslim 1436a, Bk. 16, H. 140).

Woman who uses perfume is adulteress:

A woman is forbidden to cry on the death of husband:

Muhammad told to throw dust in the mouth of women who were crying on the death of their husbands in the war. (Sahih Muslim 935a, Bk. 11, H. 39).

 

A woman should not be alone with another man.  (Afghanistan the Taliban were flogging women who were unaccompanied by male guardians).

Women not fit for leadership positions:

“When the Prophet heard the news that the people of the Persia had made the daughter of Khosrau their Queen (ruler), he said, "Never will succeed such a nation as makes a woman their ruler." (Bukhari, Volume 9, Book 88, Number 219).

A wife should not allow anyone in the house without husband’s permission:

The woman who arranges her marriage is adulteress:

Women may not pray in the Mosque but at home.

Women’s place is in the back of the Mosque (Sahih Muslim Vol.1, Bk. 4, No. 880-881).

Women are forbidden to have wigs, alter teeth, tattooing or remove facial hair. (Bukhari vol.6, Bk. 60, H. 408). (Video of Taliban cutting the hand of a girl for nail polishing)

If no prayer is done before sex Muhammad says, Jinn will have sex with wife.

But, the New Testament shows men and women are complementary to each other. It was an essential part of God's plan, from the very beginning, to create two genders in the human race, male and female.

The complementarity of these differences helps explain why men and women have always experienced such a mysterious attraction. Biologically, chemically, psychologically, emotionally, and even intellectually, men and women show general tendencies and characteristics that are different and that complement each other. This complimentarity is also a basic theological fact. God created us male and female because we are called to image his own divine nature here on earth. And the essence of the divine nature is self-forgetful, fruitful love - Trinitarian love.

 

Paul makes clear that marriage as designed by God is built on an ordered relationship between the spouses. This is what he means when he says so clearly that a husband is "the head of his wife" and that wives should be "subordinate to their husbands."

We tend to want to dismiss St Paul's affirmations as applicable to the culture of his day but not applicable to the culture of our day. But St Paul isn't merely stating a personal opinion or a cultural description.

He is putting forth a theological truth.  He is saying that one of the "great mysteries" of marriage, one of the reasons Jesus made it into a true sacrament, is that it is an image of the relationship between Jesus and the Church.

This helps us understand that the hierarchy of relationships in a marriage is not a political hierarchy. The husband is not meant to be the head of the wife in the sense that the wife is the husband's servant or slave - not at all. As St Ambrose put it, addressing Christian husbands:

"You are not her master, but her husband; she was not given to you to be your slave, but your wife.... Reciprocate her attentiveness to you and be grateful to her for her love" (quoted in John Paul II's Letter to Families, #25).

It is a distinction of function, not a hierarchy of nature.

By nature the husband and the wife are, in the first place, completely equal in dignity. Genesis tells us that Adam and Eve both shared the same dignity as human beings: both were created in the image and likeness of God. Both are equally necessary and dependent on each other. A husband cannot fulfill his calling as a husband without the commitment of his wife. A wife cannot fulfill her calling as a wife without the commitment of her husband.

The husband and wife together build the marriage and the family, just as the head and the heart together keep the body alive, growing, and healthy.

The heart is subordinate to the head in the sense that it would never be insubordinate (rebellious) towards the leadership of the head, just as the head would never neglect or abuse the heart. Thus, the Church has always understood this ordered relationship as a partnership of love and mutual self-giving.

Christ is the head of the Church and has given his life to her and for her; and the Church is the bride of Christ, totally consecrated to him and his Kingdom.

As we continue with this holy Mass, in which Jesus will renew his commitment to us, let's thank him for the beautiful gift he has given us by creating us man and woman, in his image and likeness, and let's ask his forgiveness for the times we haven't lived up to this noble calling, and let's renew our commitment to building Christ's Kingdom in the world, by striving, with the help of his grace, to live, support, and spread this "great mystery" of marriage, just as God designed it.

 

 

 

Feast of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary: Rv 11:19a; 12:1-6a, 10ab; 1 Cor 15:20-27; Lk 1:39-56).

 This year the feast of Assumption falls on a Sunday.  The origin of the Catholic belief in the Assumption of Mary goes back to many centuries. The Feast represents a Catholic Doctrine that was defined by Pope Pius XII on November 1, 1950. The proclamation of the Church states that, revealed by God, the Immaculate Virgin, preserved free from all stain of original sin, when the course of her earthly life was finished, was taken up body and soul into Heavenly glory. The tradition holds that Blessed Virgin Mary died in Jerusalem (or Ephesus?) and during the last moments of her earthly life all surviving Apostles were present there except St. Thomas, who was then preaching in India. He then was miraculously brought there, and he insisted on seeing the dead body of the Blessed Virgin Mary. But to everyone’s surprise, her tomb was found empty, excepting her clothes.

It makes sense that the woman who bore God in her womb should be borne by God into heaven, and not left in a grave to turn back into dust. While the bodies of the Apostles and martyrs could be preserved and venerated, whereas of the body of Mary, no relic should remain on earth. Mary’s assumption and glorification is simply the result of the singularly heroic and complete surrender to the Will of God.

 

In the Old Testament, the Queen of the Kingdom of Israel was always the Queen Mother. One of King Solomon's first acts when his father David gave him the throne was to raise his mother Bathsheba to his side, to be the royal Queen. There was a practical reason for this tradition: Old Testament Kings used to marry more than one wife, but he had only one Mother, so she became Queen. The same way Jesus raised his mother to heaven body and soul at the end of her life in honor of her heroic faith and co-operation to the will of God.

 

Mary’s Immaculate Conception was the beginning of her heroic life, and her assumption was the end. But the road in between was the way of the cross. At every step she said, “Yes” to God. She said “Yes” at the annunciation, submitting to God’s plans as the “handmaid of the Lord”, when in spite of the words of the angel, so many things about her future remained unclear. She said “Yes” again at Bethlehem, when Jesus was born in the midst of so much poverty. She said “Yes” when she was told to flee with the child to Egypt. She said “Yes” to God at Nazareth for thirty years, when she experienced many anxious moments. She said “Yes” to her loneliness when Jesus left her. She said “Yes” to God when she heard about the opposition that Jesus received from the Religious leaders. She said “Yes” to God when she stood at the foot of the cross. Her life was a perfect submission to the plan of God.

Learning from the angel that her cousin Elizabeth was about to give birth to a child, Mary set quickly to visit her. It was a long and dangerous journey for a girl of her age, yet she did not think of herself but of the need of her cousin. At Cana when she learned that they had no wine she brought it to the notice of her son. She was sensitive to the need of others. At the foot of the cross Jesus has entrusted her with the care of the whole humanity, and she accepted it.

In the words of Pope Francis: ‘On the cross, Christ led us to Mary!’ and ‘He brought us to her, because he did not want us to journey without a mother’ (Evangelii Gaudium 285-288).

Reflecting on that first miracle of Jesus at the Cana wedding feast, Pope Francis wrote, ‘She is the friend who is ever concerned that wine not be lacking in our lives. She is the woman whose heart was pierced by a sword and who understands all our pain. As mother of all, she is a sign of hope for peoples suffering the birth pangs of justice; she is the missionary who draws near to us and accompanies us through life, opening our hearts to faith by her maternal love. She constantly surrounds us with God’s love.’

As we celebrate this transition of Our Blessed Lady to be reunited with her divine son, we can be completely convinced of the role she plays as our heavenly mother. The role of Mary, heavenly mother of the whole human race, and mother of the Eternal King of the Universe, is surely not simply a title that signifies nothing more than a mental impression of Mary’s Assumption into the presence of God, but indicates so much more: it is as a sign of hope for us now in the 21st Century as it has been for two thousand years.

Just as God assumed Mary into heaven, body and soul, at the end of her earthly mission, so God will lift the whole Church into perfect communion with himself in heaven at the end of history. Mary's Assumption, then, is God's promise to us.  Every Christian who follows Mary's path of humility and fidelity to God's will can look forward to following her into the glories and joys of heaven.

 

Contemplating the Assumption of Mary into Heaven reminds us that suffering and trials are also gifts from God. It was not easy for Mary, but she made it. Mary’s Assumption reminds us of what awaits us if we accept suffering and trials with patience and faith, desiring to help Our Lord accomplish the work of redemption. Let’s pray today that Mary helps us make the journey to Heaven and one day shine there alongside her and her Son.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OT XIX [B] I Kgs 19:4-8, Eph 4:30–5:2, Jn 6:41-51

In today’s First Reading Elijah is dejected and ready to give up when it seems his mission has failed and his life is in danger. Forty days and nights before reaching Horeb Elijah had worked a great sign showing the Lord was God, had overthrown a veritable army of false prophets, and witnessed the end of a long, punitive drought that was imposed on the unfaithful Israelites. Despite this, his life was in danger, and it seemed the evil and infidelity in Israel was as strong and powerful as ever, spearheaded by queen Jezebel, who pledged to kill him after he’d humiliated her prophets and pagan religion. The Lord takes the initiative and encourages him, sending him food and drink, persisting when Elijah was not ready to get up and continue to Mount Horeb to consult the Lord.

That nourishment and encouragement sustained him for a long journey, just as Our Lord, through the Eucharist, nourishes us and encourages us in the journey of life.

In today’s Gospel Our Lord tells the incredulous crowd that the Father called and prepared them even before he was sent so that they would believe that he indeed is the Bread of Life.

It’s difficult for the crowds to understand this teaching: they know Jesus, where he is from, who his parents are, so it’s hard for them to believe he has come down from Heaven.

 

Jesus packs three momentous lessons into this discourse on the Eucharist in today's Gospel passage.

First, he points out the mystery of faith, that no one can believe in him "unless he is drawn by the Father."

If they open their hearts to the Father, the Father leads them to take the next step. They must believe in his Son, not just as a sure guide in their pilgrimage to eternal life, but as their nourishment to be able to undertake the journey. Faith in Christ is God's gift, no one can conjure it up on their own, in a chemistry lab.

When we look at the small white Host, no scientific test can prove that Jesus Christ is truly present there, body, blood, soul, and divinity. And yet, we know that he is; we have been given the gift of faith. This is why the priest says, after the consecration at each Mass: "Let us proclaim the mystery of faith."

Second, this faith in Christ leads to "eternal life."

Later in the Gospel, Jesus tells us that eternal life consists in knowing "the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom [God has] sent" (John 17:3). In Biblical language, "knowing" implies deep interpersonal intimacy, the kind of relationship we all yearn for.

Third, Jesus himself is the "bread" of this eternal life, its source and sustenance. Without bread, without food, physical life perishes. Without Jesus, without his "flesh for the life of the world" in the Eucharist, our life of intimate communion with God will perish. It's that simple - and it's that crucial. Eleven times in this discourse Jesus speaks of himself as the bread of life; he's really hoping that we'll get the message.  The gift of faith gives us access to eternal life, and the Eucharist makes that life grow within us

 

We accept and believe this on faith, but it is not a blind faith. God supports our faith in many ways. He knows that the culture of this fallen world is constantly trying to erode our faith. And so, in his wisdom and according to his providence, he sends us miracles, sometimes dramatic, to give our tired faith a turbo boost.

The history of the Church is full of Eucharistic miracles. Recorded miracles include hosts that survived fires, hosts that started to bleed during Mass, hosts that lost their appearance of bread and transformed into flesh... But some of the most remarkable signs God has given us regarding the Eucharist has to do with Holy Communion. Through the centuries, there have been many saints, both men and women, who have lived for entire periods of their lives just on the Eucharist. They took no food or drink, but only received Holy Communion every day.

Christ is the fullness of life and meaning that we all hunger for, and the Eucharist is Christ's real presence. This is what our faith teaches us.

Faith is connected to the Eucharist because it reveals Christ's presence to us, but it is also connected in another way. Physical food nourishes our bodies simply by the act of eating. Our digestive processes take over as soon as we swallow our food. We don't have to think about it; our attitude doesn't help or hinder it.

Not so with the spiritual food of the Eucharist. If we receive the Eucharist out of routine, in a distracted frame of mind, then we will not receive all the grace that God wants to give us.

But if, on the other hand, we receive the Eucharist with the right dispositions, God's grace will have more room to act, strengthening our souls and making our spirits grow.

As we pray before the tabernacle, for example, or as we come forward to receive Holy Communion, we should activate our faith, consciously stir it up. We should focus our attention as completely as possible on Jesus Christ, the living bread who has come down from heaven to be our spiritual food.

This week, let's take some time to reflect on the relevance of the Eucharist for our personal spiritual life and seek to know Christ and to share that personal knowledge of him who died to make himself present in the Eucharist, with others.

 

 

 

OT XVIII [B]: Ex 16:2-4, 12-15; Eph 4:17, 20-24; Jn 6:24-35

 
Last week Jesus performed the multiplication of the loaves; and all the people who witnessed the amazing miracle wanted to make Jesus king.

The people who sought Jesus in today’s Gospel still want nothing more than a full stomach, but Our Lord is trying to help them see that what they crave is what that full stomach normally gives them: life, not just for a few decades, but for eternity.

As Jesus reminds them, full stomachs didn’t enable those Israelites under Moses to live forever, even though the Lord provided them with manna to eat. 

Jesus didn't come to earth for an ego-trip; he came to fulfill a mission. And that mission is not to bring paradise on earth - which is what they want: "you are... looking for me... because you had all the bread you wanted to eat." Rather, he came to bring them "bread from heaven," the truth and freedom that come from living in communion with God. He doesn't cave in to the temptation to satisfy a natural desire for power and popularity, for merely human success.

 

Like the Israelites in the First Reading the people were still seeking signs, but now the moment had come for faith, a faith that leads to no longer living as the Gentiles did, just focused on immediate needs and concerns of this life and not seeing the bigger picture where this life is a pilgrimage toward eternal life. 

The Israelites who grumbled in the desert in the First Reading didn’t live to see the Promised Land due to their lack of trust in God; the people in today’s Gospel are being extended an opportunity to one day enter into the true Promised Land, but they have to trust the new Moses–Jesus–to lead them.

 

Material things do not necessarily bring us happiness. That is a fact of life. It is a hard fact to understand sometimes, especially in a society that tries very hard to teach us otherwise.

Buddhism is a religion based on seeking enlightenment, and not desiring material or tangible things. They believe that suffering is caused by desire. The principle is, we desire, we suffer because we do not own the thing we desire, and once we own the thing, we desire something else, so the suffering continues. There are too many desires in the world, and a human will never be truly happy.

 

It is very common to get into a mode where we think, "If only I had object X, my life would be perfect and I would be happy." We really want something: a new TV, a new car, a special pair of shoes, whatever. Then we buy it and we love having it for a few days. But over time we get bored or it wears us out. We can see this pattern repeated constantly in our own life. For example, our parents and grandparents likely spent thousands and thousands of dollars on toys for us as we were growing up: Dump trucks and Barbie dolls and video games and electric cars and on and on and on. All of those toys got boring or broken or outgrown eventually. They brought happiness for a moment or a week, but over time they became worthless and our desire turned to a new object.

This kind of behaviour isn't only seen in humans. Two dogs might be eating out of their bowls, and one of them goes to eat out of the other bowl, simply because they have a default assumption that everyone else is getting the "better deal".

Jesus was asking His listeners to change their hearts and minds in order to see God in a new light. Instead of asking for bread for their stomachs as their ancestors did when Moses led them out of Egypt they should ask for the Bread of Life, the Bread Jesus was going to give them, His Body and Blood. Let us remember that the Eucharist we celebrate and receive this day IS Jesus, the Bread of Life come down from Heaven. And let us nourish our souls with this Heavenly manna and carry Jesus to our homes and workplaces, radiating Jesus’ love, mercy and compassion all around us.

 

 

O.T. XVII [B]: 2Kgs 4:42-44, Eph 4:1-6, John 6:1-15

Today’s readings invite us to become humble instruments in God’s hands by sharing our blessings with our needy brothers and sisters. 

The miracle of the feeding of the 5,000 is found in all four Gospels, although the context and emphasis vary.  This is the only miracle, other than the resurrection, that is told in all the Gospels, a fact that speaks of its importance to the early Church.

No Bible scholar doubts that all six bread miracles in the Gospels are about the Eucharist. John uses this story in his Gospel to introduce Jesus’ profound and extended reflection on the Eucharist and the Bread of Life. John makes a special mention here that the Jewish feast of Passover was near, drawing a connection of this miracle with ancient Passover. 

This miraculous feeding in the deserted place had precedents: Moses, Elijah, and Elisha had each fed people without resources.  The present miracle resembles particularly the one performed by Elisha (2 Kgs 4:42-44).  In both cases, unlike the manna in the desert, there were leftovers, for everyone there ate, and had enough and more than enough to be filled. The apostles were told to collect the left over-s. That itself has a Eucharistic overtone. Otherwise, broken crumbs of bread which could not be decently used again may not be ordered to be collected. It also can mean we shall not waste any food that we have. Because everyone needs bread to live and no one can survive without food. And if there are people not able to get sleep because their stomach is hurting due to hunger while we waste food, is certainly a sin.

At the sight of the crowd who had been listening to Jesus for long his sympathy was kindled. They were hungry and tired, and they must be fed. No one asked Jesus to provide the crowd with food.  It was Jesus who first expressed his concern about the people's need for food.

One of the greatest tragedies of our times is the fact that millions of people are reduced to starvation throughout the world.  In the Asian, African and Latin American countries, well over 500 million people are living in what the World Bank has called "absolute poverty". Every year 15 million children die of hunger. For the price of one missile, a school full of hungry children could eat lunch every day for 5 years. 100 million deaths could be prevented for the price of ten Stealth bombers, or what the world spends on its military in two days! The Indian subcontinent has nearly half the world's hungry people. Africa and the rest of Asia together have approximately 40%, and the remaining hungry people are found in Latin America and other parts of the world. Nearly one in four people, 1.8 billion - live on less than $1 per day, while the world's 358 billionaires have assets exceeding the combined annual incomes of countries with 45 percent of the world's people. When you get on the internet these days you see the ad asking help for hungry children in Yemen. Children are dying there from hunger. It is a country with 100% Muslim population. But the rich Islamic countries won’t help them because that is not their concern. Saudi Arabia offered to help Canada build 100 mosques for the Muslim immigrants, but not to help the poor, even the poor in Islamic countries. (That is another issue altogether).

God has arranged the world in such a way, that every person may have the food he or she needs. Food in the world should suffice to feed God's children but it will never suffice to fill the greed of men. One of the reasons for world hunger is priorities. Those of us who live in an industrialized society place a high priority on comfort and convenience. Our standard of living places a significant strain on the world economy. Certainly this is something Christians must consider in terms of their own economic lifestyle. At a time when people are not getting enough to eat, we are living a lifestyle far beyond what many could even imagine. We have a great challenge before us. We must not only consider what we can do to feed the hungry, but we must also consider what we should do to limit our indulgent lifestyle.

Hunger and poverty are the consequences of the selfishness of people. So the solution to this devastating problem lies with man alone. One doesn’t have to be rich to help others. Pointing to the poor widow who put two coins in the temple treasury Jesus said, others gave from their abundance but this poor widow gave from her shortage. The boy that shared his bread with Jesus had a similar attitude too.

He had not much to offer but in what he had Jesus found the materials for a miracle. Jesus needs what we can bring him. It may not be much but he needs it. It may well be that the world is denied miracle after miracle and triumph after triumph because we will not bring to Jesus what we have. He wants us to make good use of all his gifts. And the generosity of the boy contains a lesson for us. And Jesus reminds us as he did the Apostles: “Gather the fragments left over,
so that nothing will be wasted.” 

 

OT XVI [B] Jer 23:1-6, Eph 2:13-18, Mk 6:30-34

 Jesus sent out his disciples with the mission of bringing God's message to the people. When they came back from their mission they reported to Jesus all that they had done.  The demanding crowds were so insistent that they had no time even to eat; so Jesus took them to a lonely place that they might have peace and rest for a while.

Today's passage places before us the rhythm of the Christian life. Go out from the presence of God, into the presence of men, and return from the presence of men to the presence of God. It is like the rhythm of sleep and work.  We cannot work unless we have our time of rest; and sleep will not embrace anyone who has not worked until he is tired.

 This passage very clearly warns us against the danger of too constant activity. No man can work without rest; and no man can live his Christian life without giving time to be with God. Dallas Willard says that practicing silence and solitude is the most important spiritual discipline for people today. In our busy, noisy world we need to "unhook" and get away to be alone with our Lord.

Jesus began his public ministry with 40 days of withdrawal into the desert wilderness to fast and pray in silence and solitude. He was alone, hungry, hot and thirsty, surrounded by wild animals, and tested by Satan. But the truth of Jesus' fast is that the Father, the Scriptures, and ministering angels strengthened Jesus! His time alone with God and quietly focused only on him empowered him to resist Satan's temptations (which came at the end of the 40 days) and it focused and prepared him for his public ministry. Interspersed throughout Jesus' ministry of preaching, and healing, we see him withdraw from the crowds again and again – often getting up very early to do so – in order to be quiet and alone with the Father (e.g., Mark 1:35, 3:13, 6:31, 46).

Jesus' rhythm of life is the secret to how he got renewed in his Father's love and empowered by the Spirit for his life and ministry. In quiet prayer he listened to the Father and received discernment for many things.

Michael Faraday, an early pioneer of electromagnetic current, once addressed a convocation of scientists. For an hour, he held the audience spellbound with his lecture on the nature of the magnet. After he had finished, he received a thundering ovation. The Prince of Wales, later King Edward VII, stood to congratulate him. The applause thundered again. Just as quickly, a deadened silence pervaded the audience. Faraday had left. It was the hour of a midweek prayer service in a little church of which he was a member. Do we have a similar commitment? One of the reasons we gather for worship each week is for the refreshment of our spirits, the recharging of our spiritual batteries. We need to shut the world out and focus our attention on God's presence in our lives. Jesus knew the value of getting away to a quiet place.

Our Sabbath rest is often misunderstood as a time of non-activity. It is a time away with Jesus and not a time to do nothing. Often our Sunday rest is just a relaxation and nothing more. We have to go with Jesus to deserted place. Throughout the Scriptures we find the purpose of rest as a means to center our hearts on God. In him alone we find true rest. All labor is oriented toward this ultimate goal.

 Sometimes we can wonder why we get so emotionally and spiritually exhausted by the busy-ness of our lives. It's because we aren't recharging our spiritual batteries. Stress, discouragement, and other crippling emotions can wear us out if we aren't daily reinforcing our faith in Jesus Christ.

Without prayer, study, and time alone with God, our well will soon run dry - we will have nothing substantial to offer others. We need to make a commitment to a regular prayer life, not one that shifts with our moods. We need to pray daily, to have a daily quiet time when we can speak to Christ, pray for our loved ones, reflect on the scriptures, or read some good, solid spiritual book.

It doesn't have to be a lot of time - ten minutes in the morning and ten minutes at night is a good start - but it has to be consistent, and that means self-discipline.

 

"The fruit of solitude," explains Richard Foster, "is increased sensitivity and compassion for others."

The crowd saw Jesus and his men going away. But some people walked round and were there before Jesus and his disciples arrived. They earnestly sought the company of men of God. More than ever, today, men crave to be in the company of   men of God, to experience the holiness of God. Today we are entrusted with this mission – to impart the experience of the holiness of God to our contemporaries. For that we require to do two things. First of all find time to be with God, secondly find time to be with men. Hence, the rhythm of Christian life is the alternative meeting with God in the secret place and serving men in the market place. Let’s try to find some true rest on Sunday, not going alone, but with Christ, who invites us come away by yourself to a deserted place and have some rest.

 

OT XIV [B] Ez 2:2-5; II Cor 12:7-10; Mk 6:1-6

Today’s readings introduce Jesus as a prophet and explain how prophets and other messengers from God inevitably suffer rejection. Most of the famous men have experienced rejection, not once, but many times. Colonel Sanders is the founder of KFC. He started his dream at 65 years old! He got a social security check for only $105 and was mad. Instead of complaining he did something about it. He thought restaurant owners would love his fried chicken recipe, use it, sales would increase, and he’d get a percentage of it. He drove around the country knocking on doors, sleeping in his car, wearing his white suit. Do you know how many times people said “no” till he got one yes? 1009 times!

 Walt Disney was the man who gave us Disney World and Mickey Mouse. His first animation company went bankrupt. He was fired by a news editor because he lacked imagination. Legend has it he was turned down 302 times before he got financing for creating Disney World.

Vincent Van Gogh sold only one painting in his lifetime! Just one to a friend. Despite that he kept painting and finished over 800 pieces. Now everyone wants to buy them and his most expensive painting is valued at $142.7 million.

Today's gospel passage shows how some people of Jesus' home town, Nazareth, did not accept him as a prophet because they knew him and his family. They knew that he was a carpenter with no schooling in Mosaic Law and “knew” that he could not be the promised Messiah who would come from Bethlehem as a descendant of David’s royal family. Besides, they were angry when Jesus did not work any miracles in Nazareth but, with prophetic courage, he accused them of lack of faith, and warned that he would take to other people his preaching and healing ministry.

Throughout the life of Jesus there were two diametrically opposing views towards Jesus. The Infant Jesus was joyfully accepted by the shepherds. But, the infant was rejected by Herod, and he sought ways to annihilate him. The wise men from the East recognized and accepted him; but the wise men of his society – the scribes and Pharisees rejected him. Many simple people from all over Galilee and neighbouring places flocked around him; but his co-villagers rejected him. Sinful people like Zachhaeus, Mary Magdalene, the Samaritan woman etc. accepted him; but he was rejected by priests and religious leaders who were supposed to be holy.

 

The people of Nazareth despised Jesus because they knew his family. Every person that comes into the world is confronted with a choice: to accept or reject Jesus. Fortunately we have accepted Jesus as our Saviour.  It is not enough to have accepted Jesus once; we must renew our acceptance day after day. Our acceptance demands that we must always be attentive to discover what God wants from us:  he manifests his will in prayer, through His Word in the Scriptures, through the people we meet and through every event in our lives, and in nature. The obstacles that prevent from accepting Jesus are the same that prevented people of Nazareth from accepting him – they are   “pride” and “ego”. Hence, it is important that we overcome our pride and ego, then we will gain the courage to accept Jesus.

Ego will not allow us to accept the shortcomings of our life and will try to cover them up from others. Paul in the second reading tells us of his personal struggles and weaknesses he had. St Paul was not perfect; in fact, no saint was perfect. They were human beings, just like us, and they had to face problems, hardship, suffering, and temptation, just as we do.

They did not live carefree lives; in fact, it was their very challenges and failings that God used to make them into saints. That's what St Paul is trying to tell us in today's Second Reading. He says that although God has given him extraordinary mystical experiences, God has also given him a "thorn in his flesh, an angel of Satan to beat him." Paul prayed repeatedly for God to remove this thorn, but God refused, in order "to keep him from being too elated."

This strange passage raises two questions.

First, what was this thorn? No one really knows, but scholars have many theories. It may have been a physical ailment of some kind; or a particular temptation, like lust or greed; or the discouragement he constantly felt from being rejected by his Jewish confreres; or it may also have been his fiery temperament, which always seemed to get him into trouble. Whatever it was, it was a continual source of pain and irritation to St Paul.

The second question is: why didn't God take this thorn away?

St Paul tells us that it continually reminded him of his human weakness, inspiring him to depend more fully on God's grace. This is what he means when he writes: "when I am weak, then I am strong."

And this should be a comforting thought for us. It means that our thorns, whatever they may be, are not signs that God's anger or displeasure, but signs that he is teaching us, as he taught St Paul, true wisdom, the wisdom of humility and trust in God. As painful as it is, he recognizes that God is permitting it for a reason; to cure him of his tendency to arrogance and self-absorption.

Likewise, when God allows difficulties to plague us, he is not absent from them, but at work through them,  like a good doctor with a sharp scalpel.

During this Mass Jesus will renew his commitment to us through the sacrifice of the Eucharist. When he does, let's renew our commitment to him, and ask him to help us accept the thorns he allows in our lives, so that we can also experience the full transforming power of his love.