OT XVI [C] Gn
18:1-10a; Col 1:24-28; Lk 10:38-42
There is a
story about a man who was preparing his favorite breakfast of hot oatmeal when
his daughter came rushing in with his little four-year-old grandson. “The
babysitter has been delayed,” she explained, “and I’ve got to go to work. Will
you keep Bobby for a few hours?” Granddad said, “Sure,” and his daughter left.
Then Granddad scooped up two bowls of oatmeal. “Do you like sugar?” he asked.
When Bobby nodded he asked, “How about some butter, too?” When his grandson
nodded again he asked, “How about milk?” “Sure,” the boy said. But when the
grandfather placed the steaming bowl of oatmeal in front of Bobby, the boy made
a face and pushed it away. “But when I asked you, you said you liked sugar,
butter and milk,” grandfather protested. “Yeah,” Bobby answered, “but you
didn’t ask me if I like oatmeal.” Granddad forgot to ask the most elemental
question. Sometimes we forget to do that, too. We never set priorities. We
never list in our own minds what those things are that matter most. We allow
life to buffet us here and there and we never center in on those things that
really matter.
The key to
the Christian life is SETTING PRIORITIES: Jesus Christ first, then everything
else. The only way really to learn that lesson is to spend some time every day,
“sitting at the feet of Jesus.” Today’s first reading describes how Abraham and
Sarah’s hospitality to strangers was rewarded by God. The Gospel passage
describes how Martha wanted to extend the traditional generous hospitality of
her people to Jesus, the true Messiah, by preparing an elaborate meal for him,
while her sister Mary spent her time in talking to him and listening to him.
Presenting Martha as a dynamo of action and Mary as a true listener to the word
of God, today’s Gospel invites us to serve others with Martha’s diligence,
after recharging our spiritual batteries every day by prayer – listening to God
and talking to God – as Mary did.
Prayer and
actions must be continuous, complementary and mutually dependent. Prayer
without action is sterile, and action without prayer is empty. We are expected
to be “contemplatives in action” because only those who listen carefully to the
Word of God know how to behave in the way that God wants, when they show deep
concern for the well-being of other people. That is why Jesus reminds Martha
that proper service for him is attention to his instruction, not just
an elaborate provision for his physical needs.
Martha loves Christ, but she still depends on
her own strength to earn his love in return. She hasn't learned
that what matters is not so much what we can do for Christ
as what he has done and wants to do for us.
Feeding 15 people is no small task, and she could have
used her sister's help. So she
tries to get Jesus to tell Mary to lend a hand. But
Jesus doesn't. He actually commends Mary and reproves Martha.
Why? Christ was glad to be served, but he was even gladder to
be loved.
It is a
well-known fact that those who are in the caring professions, like doctors,
nurses, pastors, social workers and even parents, often suffer from burnout and
terminal exhaustion as Martha did. People suffering from burnout often end up
angry, anxious, and worried. Hence, occasionally we need to put aside the work
we do in serving others and just spend some time being with the Lord, loving Him,
talking to Him and listening to Him, fully aware of His holy presence in our
souls. We may do the recharging of our spiritual energy also by our personal
and family prayers, by the meditative reading of the Bible and by participating
in the celebration of the Holy Mass. Christian husbands and wives should
develop “couple spirituality” and seek more opportunities to pray together.
Martha has
become a symbol of action-oriented, responsible people who get the job done.
Our world needs such men, women, boys and girls, and so does the Church. How
would the Church survive if not for the Marthas who sing in the choir, clean
the church, set up for the Mass doing the Sacristan job, altar servers, ushers,
people taking communion to the sick, yard mowers, and all the Marthas working
at the Picnic this coming week? The Church could not exist without them. There
is nothing wrong with being a responsible, action-oriented, get-it-done kind of
person. But we must find time to listen to God speaking to us through His word,
and time to talk to God. Jesus clearly said: be hearers and doers of
the word. Jesus never reversed that order. God ordered 6 days of work and the 7th
day for rest, not just physical rest, but to enter into God’s rest, which is for
prayer and spiritual refreshment, the Sabbath prayer.
We don’t do
God a favor by showing up for Church on Sunday and throwing something into the basket.
This does nothing for God. It does not enhance His dignity or add anything to
His power or glory. God does us a favor by hosting a meal for us every
Sunday in which He offers Himself to us as food, in the most intimate act of
communion with Himself imaginable. Mass is not about what we do for God, but
about what God does for us. Often our attitude reflects like we are going to
give something to God and God is gaining something by our action, and that is
why at least some of us do not consider Sunday Mass a priority. Someone related
to me a few weeks ago that when she needed a ride to Church on Sunday her granddaughter
asked her, Do you still go to Church every Sunday Grandma? And she responded,
well am I not supposed to? The new generation thinks that going to Sunday mass once
a month is more than enough. Well, that is not the law. If we don’t, we break
the law and breaking the law is a sin. In the OT. When people stayed away from going
to the weekly meeting in the tent in the wilderness they were punished. It was
meant to enrich them not God.
Jesus wants us to choose the better part, to depend
more on him than ourselves, so that he can give us his best. Today, let's
promise that we will.